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ON THE MOVE with
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TOMQ is an acronym for Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal, and Québec City. This website was made by sex workers in this part of Canada for other sex workers, to share knolege and get connected to resources and services. Membership is required to access some features of the site, like our crowdsourced bad date list. If you're a sex worker on TOMQ, come join our club!

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What We Do @ TOMQ ...

TOMQ is a safe, sex-positive, judgement-free digital space for Sex workers, who work in the various commercial sex industries in Ontario and Quebec. We support all sorts of sex workers including escorts, models, gogo boys, strippers, hustlers, cammers, porn actors, and more. We don't care if you're straight, gay, bisexual, queer, non-binary or gay for pay, all who do any form of sex work are welcome here!

TOMQ is a membership-based site that allows sex workers in the to connect with other peers like them to share knowledge, stories, safety tips, and general information to help everyone stay safe and make the most of their time in this industry.

Traveling between cities for work is often part of the job, so that's why we've linked up under one umbrella across Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal, and Québec City.

Importantly, this site is not a place to advertise sex work services to potential clients.

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On The Move with Jasmine Dymond

On The Move featuring Felix O'Dair:
A personal interview about what its like to work in the porn industry in these uncertain times, while taking a look at the challenges the pandemic brings to the sex work industry. Thank you to Diversity In The Capital TV for filming and editing the video!

On The Move featuring Ethan Chase:
A personal interview about Ethan's experiences in the sex industry, while taking a look at the different types of sex work he's worked in, from when he started doing sex work to present day. Some reflection time he had spent incarcerated, and what its like living with HIV.

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PRO TIPS
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Have a friend that you trust and always tell them details about your dates and where you are.

Have a friend that you trust and always tell them details about your dates and where you are.

Client’s pay for your time and what you do in that time is mutual. They don’t own you.

Client’s pay for your time and what you do in that time is mutual. They don’t own you.

Sex work is real work. Don’t allow people make you feel less than.

Sex work is real work. Don’t allow people make you feel less than.

If you book clients in a city you are travelling to: plan for the possibility of cancellations.

If you book clients in a city you are travelling to: plan for the possibility of cancellations.

If meeting a specific client, have them send travel expenses beforehand. Always request to book your own travel.

If meeting a specific client, have them send travel expenses beforehand. Always request to book your own travel.

If you sense red-flags when making arrangements with a client, listen to them. Deals that seem too good to be true probably are.

If you sense red-flags when making arrangements with a client, listen to them. Deals that seem too good to be true probably are.

Only take jobs that you feel comfortable doing. It is okay to say no.

Only take jobs that you feel comfortable doing. It is okay to say no.

A date will go well if both of you are having fun and enjoying your time together.

A date will go well if both of you are having fun and enjoying your time together.

Don’t let clients try to shake your rate down. You are worth every dollar.

Don’t let clients try to shake your rate down. You are worth every dollar.

Safety first: wear shoes that are easily slip-on and a pair you can run in.

Safety first: wear shoes that are easily slip-on and a pair you can run in.

Remember, payment is due in advanced of services being performed.

Remember, payment is due in advanced of services being performed.

Weekends are prime time hours for your services so make sure you're making the most of that time.

Weekends are prime time hours for your services so make sure you're making the most of that time.

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Male sex worker report ...

MAX, ACT, REZO, and MIELS Québec wanted to hear about the needs and concerns of sex workers. From Winter 2020 to 2021, we held an online and in person survey. Here are some of the highlights.

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