TOMQ is a site made for and by sex workers, to share knowledge and get connected to resources and services in the Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal and Quebec City areas.
What We Do @ TOMQ ...
TOMQ is a safe, sex-positive, judgment-free digital space for Sex workers, who work in the various commercial sex industries in Ontario and Quebec. We support all sex workers, not limited to just escorts, strip dancers, and porn actors, but to gogo dancers, survival sex workers, underwear models, online cammers, and massage workers.
We don't care if you're straight, gay, bisexual, queer, non-binary, non-conforming, trans, two-spirit or gay for pay. All who do any form of sex work are welcome here, and this is a safe space!
TOMQ is a site that allows sex workers in to connect and share knowledge, stories, safety tips, news and general information to help everyone stay safe and make the most of their time in this industry.
Traveling between cities is a part of the job in most cases, so we’ve done the work of looking for safe resources to access across Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal, and Québec City. Translating everything for you to keep it accessible.
Have A Bad Date? Report it!
Reports are kept strictly confidential.
Bad Date List
We are currently working to add bad date phone numbers and email addresses from the community.
To use this feature, type in a phone number or email address in the search bar. If we have received anything from that number/email, a (X) will appear. But no news is good news!
To add a bad date to our list, please use this form.
How To Search
Enter in the search bar below your clients phone number or email address and click find client.
Resource Comments or Concerns
Use this form if you have any comments or concerns about your experience at any of our listed resources.
We want to know if we should be thanking, speaking too, or removing these resources you visited.
You are our eyes and ears! We can't change what we don't know. So if you have received bad service or great service from a place on our list, please comment on our form.
Share a Story
Did you see something online or perhaps in the community that you want others to know about?
To share with us, please use this form.
We can't guarantee we will post everything that is submitted but we will review and determine if it's something we should be informing everyone about.
News & Events
Naloxone Training & After Care Course
TOMQ and ACT will be hosting an in-depth Naloxone training and after care course for gay, bi, queer, guys, and trans folks who do sex work, PnP, and those who intersect those communities.
Self Defense Workshop
Join us for a self defense workshop on Saturday, January, 7th 2023, from 11 am to 5pm. This event is free.
Naloxone Training & After Care Course
Join us on Wednesday, January 18, 2023 for Naloxone & After Care training
OnlyMans: HQ Drop-ins
The OnlyMans: HQ Drop-in is an attempt to hold space for, build, and support Gay Bi Queer Trans guys and Gender Non-Conforming Non-Binary folks in sex work.
OnlyMans: HQ Drop-ins
The OnlyMans: HQ Drop-in is an attempt to hold space for, build, and support Gay Bi Queer Trans guys and Gender Non-Conforming Non-Binary folks in sex work.
Maggie’s MPX Q&A
Join Maggie’s Q&A on the topic of MonkeyPox on Wednesday August 24, 7:30 to 8:30 pm via Zoom
Panel Discussion on October 19, 2022
The wait is over! ACT is back again, in partnership with TOMQ! For another Community Health Form. Join us on Wednesday, October 19th 2022 as we demystify the taboo industry of sex work. We’ll be joined by two industry professionals sharing their lived experience in sex work, and the resources they have accessed over the…
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