slider home
ON THE MOVE with
TOMQ
ON THE MOVE with
TOMQ

 
TOMQ is an acronym for Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal, and Québec City. This website was made by guys who do sex work in this part of Canada and for other guys who do sex work, cisgender or trans, to share information and get connected to resources and services. Membership is required to access some features of the site, like our crowdsourced bad date list. If you're a guy who does sex work in TOMQ, come join our club!

Toronto
get on the move
Ottawa
get on the move
Montreal
get on the move
Blue map pin
Québec City
get on the move

What We Do @ TOMQ ...

TOMQ is a safe, sex-positive, judgement-free digital space for men, both cis and trans, who work in the various commercial sex industries in Ontario and Quebec. We support all sorts of sex workers including escorts, models, gogo boys, strippers, hustlers, cammers, porn actors, and more. We don't care if you're gay, bisexual, queer, or gay for pay, all guys who do any form of sex work are welcome here!

TOMQ is a membership-based site that allows guys in the industry to connect with other guys like them to share knowledge, stories, safety tips, and general information to help everyone stay safe and make the most of their time in this industry. Travelling between cities for work is often part of the job, so that's why we've linked up with guys across Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal, and Québec City.

Importantly, this site is not a place to advertise services to potential clients as membership is restricted to fellow workers.

nerdy guy standing with arms crossed leaning up against a map icon

On The Move with Jasmine Dymond ft. Felix O'Dair ...

On The Move featuring Felix O'Dair:
A personal interview about what its like to work in the porn industry in these uncertain times, while taking a look at the challenges the pandemic brings to the sex work industry. Thank you to Diversity In The Capital TV for filming and editing the video!

Choose A City To Locate Resources

PRO TIPS
to keep you safe

Have a friend that you trust and always tell them details about your dates and where you are.

Have a friend that you trust and always tell them details about your dates and where you are.

Client’s pay for your time and what you do in that time is mutual. They don’t own you.

Client’s pay for your time and what you do in that time is mutual. They don’t own you.

Sex work is real work. Don’t allow people make you feel less than.

Sex work is real work. Don’t allow people make you feel less than.

If you book clients in a city you are travelling to: plan for the possibility of cancellations.

If you book clients in a city you are travelling to: plan for the possibility of cancellations.

If meeting a specific client, have them send travel expenses beforehand. Always request to book your own travel.

If meeting a specific client, have them send travel expenses beforehand. Always request to book your own travel.

If you sense red-flags when making arrangements with a client, listen to them. Deals that seem too good to be true probably are.

If you sense red-flags when making arrangements with a client, listen to them. Deals that seem too good to be true probably are.

Only take jobs that you feel comfortable doing. It is okay to say no.

Only take jobs that you feel comfortable doing. It is okay to say no.

A date will go well if both of you are having fun and enjoying your time together.

A date will go well if both of you are having fun and enjoying your time together.

Don’t let clients try to shake your rate down. You are worth every dollar.

Don’t let clients try to shake your rate down. You are worth every dollar.

Safety first: wear shoes that are easily slip-on and a pair you can run in.

Safety first: wear shoes that are easily slip-on and a pair you can run in.

Remember, payment is due in advanced of services being performed.

Remember, payment is due in advanced of services being performed.

Weekends are prime time hours for your services so make sure you're making the most of that time.

Weekends are prime time hours for your services so make sure you're making the most of that time.

slide for next tip

Male sex worker report ...

MAX, ACT, REZO, and MIELS Québec wanted to hear about the needs and concerns of sex workers. From Winter 2020 to 2021, we held an online and in person survey. Here are some of the highlights.